No fight can end , and no friendship can move on , until everyone says these little words: I’m sorry . Sometimes , though , they can be difficult to say .       51   

l    It’s not about winning .

Friendships are not like the Super Bowl , and there should never be a winner and a loser . When you start fighting with a friend , it may feel important that you “win” the fight by proving you’re right and he is wrong , or by making him be the first to apologize .