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When I was a little girl, my mom would say, “Half the fun of doing anything is sharing it with others.” 81 Friends and mates allow us to enjoy our successes and our joys, comfort us in our hard moments, and provide a mirror for us to learn more about ourselves. I’ve always looked at friends as the family we choose. They enrich our lives. As Robert Louis Steven once said, “ 82 ”
To be a good friend or partner, it’s important to be a good listener. Hear what your friend or mate has to say first rather than jump to conclusions or get defensive. 83 When they hear their words repeated back to them, it can help them to realize what they said was not exactly what they meant to say.
